go4th_la

Thanks for all the info. No latex allergies but food allergies yes....didn't think of that. The PH thing could also be part of the problem. I will speak with Dr. Thanks again

:huh: The hubby and I have been married almost a year. I was a virgin and came from a prudish home and he was a bit more experienced. While I have learned to throw off the boundaries in the bedroom there are somethings I don't have the guts to ask someone close to me about. 1) I've noticed that every time I go down on him I get a sore throat the next morning. 2) Frequently after sex I itch. Is he making me sick and is this something that can be handled with otc stuff of does one of us need to go to the dr?

Yeah I guess thick is relative. An ex of his referrs to him as, "thick as a coke can" if that helps. Usually he gives me oral before sex but after thinking about it we usually go to missionary right I have an orgasm. We should try me on top at that point. I just didn't want my age and virginity to have hindered us. Heck I've even pondered topical anesthesia until my pain goes away but then realized it wouldn't work so well with him.

my husband and I were wed a month ago and I remained a virgin until after the wedding, my husband had not. We are both older (I'm 37) and everything is in working order. We knew to expect a painful honeymoon but now a month later the only position I can do without pain is flat on my back. We are both fun and want to try other positions but he can't stand causing me pain. He is thick. How can we change positions with less pain and deflation. we've tried several types of lube. Ideas....PLEASE.