dmrobinson84

I must add my two cents to this topic. I am new here but have some experience and am willing to share. My hubby and I have been to a strip club. It wasn't the best place in town, but we went anyway! We didn't know exactly what we were in for, but ended up having a good time. When we first arrived, we didn't like the lighting, it felt almost boring. We expected more from the way people talked about it. We sat near the back, where we could watch all around. The amount of couples that came in made us more comfortable. I couldn't believe just how many couples were actually there. After a drink or two, it didn't change too much. We laughed and people watched for a good share of the time. I actually expected more than just a girl swirling a couple times around a pole, and loud music. I WAS DISAPPOINTED a little. I didn't see anyone actually getting any lap dances, the girls would wiggle their butts in the faces of some of the men sitting stageside, but nothing I would consider very good. (I thought to myself, I could do better than that) (Sorry if that offends anyone in the industry)!! After that adventure, we decided we would try another club. Same there.... nothing very exciting. I would LOVE to find an upscale club somewhere and go there. I am by no means an expert, but, You could do the same thing at home. I say you should go with him at least once. See what it is about, see what they do there, and pick up on some moves to help seduce your man. It could be quite exciting for you both!! Lap dances are not cheating. They don't let you touch, and if it brings him home ready to ROCK N ROLL with you, I say GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!! I am very seriously doing research on the purchase of a pole to do my own dancing here at home for my husband. He is all for that. Besides, it will be cheaper, and I will get to keep the cash!!!