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Thanks, Mikayla! As usual your reply is quick and very helpful. We did use extra lube, but I didn't moderate, so I'll check into that. Also, I know I haven't been drinking enough water - especially during this hot weather! I don't have any signs of an infection (worked in a Dr. office for 12 years), but I will definitely go in if this continues. It's only been a few days, so I don't want to rush anything in case it is due to our increased activity. I'll keep all your suggestions in mind! Thought maybe someone else had been through this at some point. Thanks!

Ok, so my hubby and I have been married for about 8 1/2 months. For the past few days, every time he enters me (or uses a toy) it hurts. At first I thought maybe we hadn't had enough foreplay to warm me up, but last night I was definitely ready. He tried a dildo and it hurt. We finally gave up on that and had sex, which still hurt, but a little less. After that I tried the dildo again and it was a little better, but still hurt. Once I got it past a point, it was fine, but hurt again to take out. I don't know if it's my pc muscles, but whatever it is just feels tight. I haven't been doing a ton of kegels or anything. This didn't even happen on our wedding night. I'm not sure what to do. The only difference is that we've been having sex every night for a week or so, and that is more often than usual for us. If anyone has any thoughts/solutions, I'd sure appreciate it!

Thanks so much, Mikayla and Howard!! These are all very helpful suggestions. I drew a scratch off from a game I got at my bachelorette party and it said he had to be my slave for the day. That was a long time ago and I still haven't redeemed it, so I'm working on planning a whole day. I hope to do it next Saturday!! I will definitely use both your suggestions. I plan to have him do several things during the day that will keep him turned on (not sure what yet!), and then use Mikayla's suggestion at night for a big finish to the day! I'm sure I'll keep Howard's suggestion in mind, too....I had no idea. If anyone has ideas for keeping him horny all day, please let me know!! Wish me luck!

Thanks Mikayla! I think I might like trying one sometime....I'll have to save up, though. Guess I'll have something to look forward to!

Thanks blush! I think he would enjoy all of those things! I'm trying to plan a night where I do just those sorts of things to him! I thought I needed "light" suggestions, but after a story he told me last night, I'm thinking maybe they don't have to be so light!! Anyway, I still need more help so pleeeeeease keep 'em coming!

Mikayla and Elise, I was wondering why you like corsets so much? I've had to wear them for operas I was in (though, some were pseudo-corsets) but I never thought about wearing them during sex. I looked at some on a website and was intrigued, but I guess I want to know if it just makes you feel sexier or what. Also, I'm really large chested so I worry it would make me look flatter - not necessarily a bad thing, but since I'm bigger than I would like in other areas I like my chest! Anyway, any thoughts would be appreciated!

Hi all! First time poster, although I do enjoy reading these forums from time to time! My hubby and I enjoy some light bondage, although I could see us getting heavier into it in the future! (We've only been married 8 months!) He has started asking me lately how I would punish him if he was bad. I can't think of anything other than teasing him and then not bringing him to orgasm. I need help!!! Does anyone have any suggestions for other punishments (I'll take as many as I can get!) that aren't too harsh? Thanks so much!