Hi everybody...I'm a 28 year old mother of two, and my 33 year old husband is not very open-minded when it comes to the bedroom...and I wish we had more sex. He has low sex drive, and takes testosterone gel to improve the problem, which helped for a couple of weeks, and then stopped working. When we were dating, we did it all the time....and now I'm lucky to get laid twice a month. We've been married 5 years this August! In fact, not too long ago, three months went by with no sex. I've asked him if it's me, and he says no, he just doesn't think about it. He hates porn and thinks toys are "weird"....What the heck?! I am a very sexual person, and I stay horny. He told me that he seriously thinks something is wrong with me and that he's never met anyone as "freakishly horny" as me. I could definitely have sex twice a day, at least. (I don't see anything wrong with that.) I have always wanted a toy, and against my husband's judgment, I bought one the other day. (Pink Passion vibrating dildo) He was upset when he saw me open the box, and said, "you wasted money on THAT?" But two days later, I brought it into the bedroom and laid it beside the bed. I started rubbing on him, and then sucking...and I heard him say "why don't you play with your new toy?" WHOA! I couldn't believe it! So I grabbed it and handed it to him and told him to use it to tease me. He got into it, and came faster than usual. The next day he asked if I had named my toy yet. (I can't believe he's starting to open up a little...) ANYWAY, I'm trying to spice things up a bit and see if I can't get him interested in sex again....any suggestions? Thanks in advance, and sorry for the long intro. It's nice to be able to vent a little, I can't very well talk to my mother-in-law about all this...
