timidandshy

Okay, thank you so much for your help, I'll keep what you in mind and will help him adjust to things and so will I Thank you!

Your so very right. Cutting a haircut is a drastic change somewhat. I think I overated but the only thing is he seems a bit different, more like a little stern and shy which was never his case only which when we first met, and when he and I 'you know' a coule nights back he was more of on the eager and aggressive side(sorry didn't mention this earlier) during the deed. And seeing his face before I looked away freaked me out because not only did it scare of the new look but also that his haircut was cut that way when he was shy, sweet and so very innocent and that too made things uncomfortable. It was like a ghost but more of a past reminder nightmare. And about the phone conversation he wasn't shy about it, he was more of like a great thank you or something like that and kinda in a sweet and appreciative way So on the phone it wasn't him being weird about it, it was my own that felt akward (and the call was from his house).

Okay, thanks so much for the advice, I thought I was just crazy

Um.. hi. I'm new here. I was refered from a college friend and she recommended this website. Awesome website by the way. Anyways, back to my topic. I haven't seen my boyfriend for about five days since he just started his college admission and they have some strick requirements on his appearance. He told me he had to cut his hair and his hair was long, about to his ears and he needed to cut it. He told me he wouldn't cut it short short but the other night when I seen him, he had like this marine haircut, kinda like an Adam Sandler haircut but a bit shorter. To be honest it freaked me out because when I first met him his hair was like that (kinda like a ghost from the past but things at that time were sweet and innocent, unlike the huge steps we've taken since our 5 year relationship began). Now, when he and I made love, I felt akward when we were doing it. I'm ashamed to say that I couldn't even look at him, every time I faced him I had to turn away. I felt like I was cheating on him or felt quilty or something like that. Now when today I talked to him on the phone, he thanked me for the other night but I couldn't really talk about it and acknowledge quickly and refered to a different topic. Now my question here is, am I being foolish or what is going on. I'm not the type to ask for advice, I'm very shy and timid and so I kindly ask if anyone responds to this topic to bear with me and take it easy on me. So any advice from anyone, thank you very much. Right now, I still feel bad about him Thanks, Shygurl13