My wife loves any toy that doesnt have to penatrate her. She tries to use dildos and vibrators that are made for penatration but she says they feel "fake", foreign, like a peice of rubber inside her( all our toys are jelly ot hard plastic)? I really love to watch her do her self with a dildo. I have just ordered a realskin vibrating dildo in hope that it will "feel" more real and she will enjoy it. any input on this would be helpful? Thanks in advance