starfallz

I've made a few posts on here already. I'm 25, married and the mother of a beautiful 11-month-old girl. My husband is in the military and is headed to Iraq for his first time. I'm living with my inlaws in Hawaii while he is gone. Before being a stay at home mom I was a journalist and a photographer. However, I love being a mom and hope to be able to stay home with my children until they are school aged. I'm shy when it comes to talking about feelings, fantasies, sex, etc. But at the same time I'm adventurous and know what I like. I hope by participating in this forum I can learn to speak up more in the bedroom. And while my husband is away maybe I can learn to open up on the phone with him to help ease the pain of him being so far away. I read the article on phone sex, but I don't think I'm quite ready for that (although I know my husband would love it).

Thanks for the advice and support. I just got my first order in today from Too Timid. Now I have lots of goodies to bring with me on my trip. Lets just hope my bag doesn't get searched at the airport. My husband even had me getting him a toy for him to take with him during his deployment. His Srgts had shown them how to make a home-made pocket pussy, but he wanted one a little sturdier. And I got myself a special toy to keep me company while he is gone. I'm going to see if we can borrow a car or something to get back and forth to a hotel for at least one night. We need a night without the baby where we don't have to worry about keeping it down. It's a small town, my husband knows the area better than I do. I'll have to ask him if there are any gettaway places we can sneek of to during the day.

The neck is great, but the first time someone kissed me on the small of my back I thought I was going to die (in a good way). That's now my favorite spot for a little extra attention.

The last time I saw my husband was in early May when he had a family pass for a few hours before leaving for his pre-deployment training for his first tour in Iraq. His aunt watched our baby and we rented a hotel room for the afternoon. I haven't seen him since. Next week he has a five day family pass to spend with us before he goes overseas. We're going to be staying with his grandparents because so much of his family lives in that general area. We won't have a car because we are both flying in to Texas - me from Hawaii and him from Mississippi. I don't feel comfortable having sex in such a full house with all his family there. We talked about getting a room, but that would be difficult getting back and forth since we don't have a car (and five nights in a hotel can really add up). It's a small town so public transportation is out of the question. I need to figure out a way to have some alone time with him where I am comfortable. Also, since having our baby my labido has been practically non existant. I'm excited to see him and all and have bought toys and other goodies for our time together, but I could use some advice on how to perk up my sex drive a bit. This will be our last visit for who knows how long. Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated. Thanks.