Janetj1983

My husband passed away about 2 years ago, and now I find myself in a new dimension of my life. I am not very experienced when it comes to men and toys/massage oils. I started dating a very wonderful man. We have not engaged in any sexual activities yet, but becoming more adventurous. I was wondering if the warming oils are made specifically for women, and if not, can I use this on my partner and still go down on him orally? I feel so niave, when it comes to sex! And I was married for 12 years.