spazz742

I also don't know if this is a fetish but I love to play with my wife's hair, or while I am getting my haircut by my stylist, who by the way is smoking hot. And man let me tell you, in a public place it is very hard to hide, the old woody or flag pole. spazz

Katprr, Yes we have 1 child who is 12, but that is not to worrisome there, lol, but her religion also is not a factor either. Thankyou for the posting gonna try some things again, like lunch date and see where it goes from there. spazz

Thurisas, Like I said it took me awhile to write that down, lol, but anyways to answer some of your questions, I have talked about it in and outside the bedroom on and off most of the time, as not to pressure her at all. I asked her what she thought about if we tried to spice things up abit, with the same ole answer no I like the way we are having it. Her thoughts in general are just straight sex and that is it, she says that any other way just does not seem normal. When we first got together our love life was great, no complaints here on my end, I even asked her if it was me or was I doing something wrong and she was just afraid to tell me because I might take it wrong. And now it is coming at an alarming rate of less frequency, which in this case I am starting to have the case of blue balls. I have talked to her about maybe adding some toys in the sequence but she thinks they are dirty and discusting, but by all means she is no saint either. I appreciate your information on this problem, hope to hear from you again. Really appreciate yours or anyones help on this issue, thankyou and will look later on for some guidance.

Of course as stated before, I am new here, my love life sucks been married for 13 years, and the wife does not like anything but straight sex, and it is boring which has led us to less and less sex. I mean i mention things, or try to start something, different ways and it just doesn't work anymore, I want to spice up the romance in bed, but I don't know how to pass this stage. Any ideas out there would deeply be appreciated. I am basically opened to just about anything, playing with toys, etc, etc, etc. I know I may have left some things out but as this site says, yes I am timid to talk about this and this took me a little time to put this down.