Alexis

Hi! Thank you sooooo much for your suggestions..... I will definitely try everything that you have mentioned! Have a great day!

I've been in a relationship for a year with the most wonderful man! I spend many years as a single parent and had so many responsibilities between children, work, school, aging parents not to mention two dogs... that I did not have time for a relationship.... until now. We are not youngsters.... but sexual performance is not a problem for either one of us. I never imagined to meet someone like him at this stage of my life. The problem is that our sex life has become boring and we both see the need to change this and are in the process of talking about it. I don't have very much imagination and would like to ask you for suggestions. I especially need advice as to how to initiate sex...... My partner is an early riser and works long hours..... in the evening he is often tired and although I sometimes try to initiate sex.... usually verbally.... which is probably not the way to go.... he will tell me he is tired most of the time.... I just ordered a couple of sex toys, although I have never used them before but there is always the first time for everything! Right!? Also, I am looking to purchase a bed and would like to ask for advice..... what would be the best bed to enhance sexual enjoyment? Thank you all in advance for your help.