my DP gets so close during oral sex and then totally loses it, meaning he can't/doesn't cum in my mouth. He says that he's never done it before.. while he's had oral sex before he says that one woman threw up on him before he came. A few others gagged and most said ok, just don't cum in my mouth.. so a couple questions, why do women object to someone cumming in their mouth? I never have, I always thought the only choice was spit/swallow.. what can I do to relax him and get him to cum? He says I'm pushing all the right spots but that he has stage fright.. gets too caught up in cumming that he doesn't and we resort to "regular"sex to finish. Now I'm a woman who loves the man orgasming and cumming, on me, in my mouth etc. I've not gagged, spit etc. any tips??