I would like to intoduce myself, as the newbie! I am married, have 2 grown adult children and one still in High School. This is my second marriage and hubby and I have been together for 17 years. This is all new to me but I find it very interesting, and helpful. I want to be lovers with my hubby. Help Coming from a religious up bringing, and having some hang ups still I'm recognize I am not alone. So, thanks to those who share their stories and experiences. Many thanks to Howard! VioletPearl