I have i similar situation, in that my boyfriend does these things behind my back, i have told him that it bothers me because i found pics and emails one day. He said he had stopped but he still goes to all those web pages and will never log on to any of them when i am around. Plus he was telling those girls how pretty they were and how great they were, but he never tells me anything like that. I dont want to break up with him but i dont know what else to do. It seems like he doesnt care about how i feel. Any ideas other than breaking up with him?