After the birth of our 2nd child my wife has been taking a shot every three months for birth control. Now she has no sex drive at all. She is also stressed at work and I know that has an effect on her too. We were wondering if anyone had any suggestions for birth control out there that don't seem to have the side-effects that the shot has. We seemed to have narrowed it down to stess and maybe the shot that is creating the lack of drive. Any suggestions?