lafalot247

hi. i am new here too! I have the same problem. takes me a while too. My husband would laugh at me when i worry about his hands falling off.. I suggest that you try not to worry about him and be selfish(in a good way) He was the one that suggested it to me, and it really works. Put it in your head that it's all about you and it should become easier. I found that i relaxed more and didn't worry so much about the orgasm. Now after a short time I have been able to just enjoy him and what he does and now before i know it, i am going CRAZY! Our normal escapades usually last more than an hour and always reach satisfaction. I haven't yet reached that G-spot orgasm yet, but have experienced some pretty amazing orgasms. moral of my story? Stop worrying, start to just enjoy him. It may surprise you! As for the pregnant part, set the stage and surprise him. candles, toys, music, and spontanous play. the best part of being pregnant is you have one hell of an excuse to try different positions! So relax, don't worry about how long it takes. learn how to let go. It's a learning process that i am trying to figure out too..Good luck!