shy_girl

Yeah I know for a fact that it won't boost my confidence levels. I've got quite a bit to mull over, thanks for the advice guys but at the end of the day, it's me and only myself that can make this decision. Hopefully it'll be the correct one too! Cheers!

You see i'm in two minds about the whole thing. 1.) I really like this guy and he's a VERY good friend. So it's not going to be a 'wham-bam-thank you ma'am' type of experience. We'll still be friends afterwards. 2.) Maybe I should just wait. Yet I find it pretty tough to just meet a guy and take it from there as most of the lads i've encountered seem to be interested in one thing only, pair that with the fact that i'm usually just the lass in the corner that nobody appears to notice, as my friends are so much more confident than I am. I really seem to talk the talk but as of yet, i've not walked the walk.

Cheers krazikris

Really sorry but i've just noticed the beginners forum, would be very grateful if a mod could move the topic to that section... Very sorry

Hi guys i'm an 18yr old virgin looking for a bit of help. I've recently been hanging out with a cool guy, older than myself (27) and seemingly rather experienced. We're both not looking for a relationship, just a bit of good old fun. The trouble is, I am a virgin and practically do not know what to do. I have pretty low self-confidence and this guy I am with, I personally feel will be disappointed with me if you know what I mean. But then I think that if he doesn't find me attractive, then why does he want to get involved with me...sexually?! I see the fella as being a bit out of my league as he is involved in the sports industry, is extremely fit and quite well know in this area and i'm just a lil teenager. My sexual history : never had sexual contact (oral, full etc.) and this guy was my first proper kiss. But I really do want to try it with him, but am afraid to. Whenever we try and do stuff I get all nervous, clammed up and usually end up fleeing. Now it's getting to the stage where he is getting a little fed up of me 'playing games' but I really want to 'play games' with him if you get me. I want this so bad but my lack of confidence in myself is really getting to me. I know the guy only wants to have sex with me, but I feel the same about him, I really want to do it, I don't want a relationship with him at all and he definitely feels the same way. Any ideas? Thank you for reading and any further info required, just ask!

Hi all. Just stumbled across this board whilst looking for advice about something. Hope to get the advice I need and then stick around and see what else catches my eye. I'm a 18 year old girl from Yorkshire. Thanks all.