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One thing about the woman on top is for me at least I last a lot longer when my woman is on top.I don't know if this is true for other men but it always works for me that way

I gotta say that I agree with you.A fromer lover of mine asked me one night after sex how she rated with other lovers i'd had and trying to compliment her I replyed honey your the best piece of ass i ever had.She promptly got up got dressed and told me if thats what i thought of her I could go f*** myself.I learned right then dont get involved with rating your partner.That seems like a barstool conversation that should be had between two guys.I compare it with telling your wife I wish you cooked like my mom.We all have different skill levels and if a partner don't measure up teach them by suggesting new things act like your trying a fantasy of yours and help them learn to be better lovers.Thats just my opinion

You know I'm far from an expert at this but you say you have a long distance relationship.I also have one and my SO and I are 20 years apart.I find that since we only see each other every couple of weeks you know in your mind that sex is going to be part of the visit its sometimes hard to fully relax.I know I sometimes worry cause of the age difference if I will perform up to standards so to speak.When you see an SO several times a week or can visit at any time you tend to have sex when you feel like sex.When you know that you will be with this person on a certian day and you will have sex on that day it sometimes is hard to relax at least that happens to us.Theres times when we have earth shaking sex then theres times when it seems like we just go thru the motions.Amonth ago we stayed in bed the whole day that we were together and at the end of our visit while we were both physically wore out and it was ok.This past weekend we got to spend less than two hours together and it was the greatest room spinning sex we could have had.I think when you know a week ahead of time that on a certian day at a certian time you will do it plays into how much you enjoy it and therefore maybe you let go easier.Thats just my opinion

I think it will" come "no pun intended easier the more times you do it with your man.I know the first time I'm with a woman theres some nerves involved,Will I satisfy her,Will I measure up to other lovers she's had.Things like that make the first time with a new person a little tough.I think that the fact that he did get you off the first time and he wants to learn how to get you off better is great.I always ask my partner to give me some sign if I'm doing it right.A little moan or a sudden deep breath or even a little arch of the back when he's hitting the right spot will tell him he's doing well. I personally like those directions better than saying a little more to the left or something like that.

Yes it was very hard to concentrate.First off I was worried about the only rule that was put down,Me not being allowed to penatrate the other woman so I was keeping my mind on that rule.Both girls were average looking my girl friend having the upper hand in that category.I still think the major thing about it was no experiance in this for any of us and both girls were never with other women.I compare it with having a party thats going flat.It seemed that someone was always unattended and bored.As far as my post threesome relationship with my girlfriend it seems fine.She said this weekend maybe we can try again sometime but she says that she only feels comfortable with this same woman.I in a way have no problem with this but im concerned that things may loosen up the next time and im still worried about breaking that one rule.As for letting go to tell you the truth I was so nervous i was glad when it was over however being a red blooded american man the thought of one on one with the other woman has crossed my mind but i know it would ruin my relationship with my girlfriend so I try not to think of it.The three of us have done cyber a couple of times and to be honest i never thought it would hold my interest however i love it.Only thing about cyber I feel its nothing more than assisted masterbation cause in the end your the only one physically touching you.But I do enjoy it and I dont feel its cheating as both my girlfriend and myself do it with others.

well it was ok.all rules were followed.i think we tryed too many new things at once.SO couldnt bring herself to go down on another girl,they had no trouble kissing and touching and SO used the bunny on the other girl but any oral was done by me.It seemed that for the most part there was always one person sitting and watching.my relationship seems to be ok post threesome although there were some questions asked of me afterwards like what did she taste like and did she cum while i was licking her but for the most part it was ok.one thing that was a little odd i had a hard time having sex with my girlfriend while the other girl was sitting there watching.i never had sex before while some woman was sitting there doing herself with a sex toy.i would like to try again but it was not the best sex i ever had

Well its on for this weekend!! I just got a call from the girlfriend of my SO asking me if I was willing to try.I still have not met her and to be honest I felt strange talking to a person that I never met about it on the phone.Wish me luck I hope everything goes well and come monday theres no hard feelings

thanks for all the advice.I guess if the only rule is no SEX with the other girl and my SO will be there I should be ok and i have to be the one to uphold that rule.I'll behave to get the chance to be with two women.Part 2 to this is no1 I will not meet the other woman till the event.no.2 none of us have ever had a threesome.no.3 both women are bi-curous but neither have ever been with another woman.So in the big picture I guess it will be a learning event for all of us.If we do it I'll write about the outcome good or bad

It seems that most of the advice here basiclly says stay away from threesomes.So heres my situation.My SO has said she would like to be with another woman during a conversation we were having.My response was could I watch? So she says you could join in and I'm immedietly excited so we continue talking and she says but you cant fuck her cause that would break my heart.She told a friend of hers and the girl is all for it,I've never met this other woman and my SO says I can do oral on both of them and use toys but I can only have intercourse with her.I've kindly declined because in my view in the heat of battle if this other woman wants cock how is a guy supposed to say no.My SO keeps asking when can we do this and i keep stalling cause i see a train wreck coming and i've told her my worries and all she says is I will make sure you dont do her.So what do i do?I like most men fantisize about being with 2 women but i dont want to lose what i have.Should i take a chance?

well at the age of 52 im starting to slow down a little, its harder to get up,it's harder to multiple climax,and i've always had too quick of a trigger if you know what i mean.I'm force feeding myself vitamins and excersising but age is starting to creep up on me.

well i've been lurking here for a while and decided i'm comfortable enough to ask for help.First I'm married and have a girlfriend (please don't judge me) all that i ask has to do with the girlfriend.We have discussed for a while the thought of trying anal. The last time we were together we attempted I grabbed some K-Y and we proceded to the bedroom,during foreplay i inserted my finger and she enjoyed it.Understand neither of us has any experiance in this.then I rubbed some K-Y on her opening and I slowley tried to enter her,I did not even get the head of my cock in and she said stop it hurts.We washed and went back to foreplay.Again she enjoyed my finger and she said lets try again.We got the same results.I searched and found this site and ordered some Astrocreme and some I forget the name but the stuff to numb her.My question is since shes more than willing what are we doing wrong? I read the help articles and we seem to be doing this right.Is there any positions that first timers should or should not use (we tried doggie style) Is it possible that even though she is willing this will not work? We both want to do this so any help would be great

Hi all I just found this place the other day and can't seem to leave.Theres always something interesting being discussed and something to learn