my boyfriend and i have been together almost 4 years and sexually active for 2 years. we transitioned from just oral sex to intercourse (both our first time!) about 9 months ago and also moved in together. i didn't expect to have sex issues cuz of how new and exciting it all was. we've had a continuous issue with sex drive. he's content with aprox once a week and i would be happier with once every three days or more. sometimes i get real pissy or emotional if i don't have it after more than 4 or 5 days. i dunno if it's a physical thing or a psychological thing. but i feel like a freak. i feel like he isnt attracted to me. women are taught that men will want more sex than they do, but i feel like i got the short end of the stick. i tried masturbation but it seems forced. it's gotten so weird that im no longer comfortable pleasing myself. i have a feeling it's an emotional thing. like i need to feel close physically to feel good about the relationship. im not a psychologist so im not sure. but i'm just concerned with how to deal with this without asking too much from my b/f. i feel so bad about wanting more. but i want it cuz it's good, not cuz it's unsatisfying. is it normal for a woman to feel like this?
