yummy_mummy

I have been reading things on this site for a few days now, and I am still having issues. lol My husband is very *conservative* in the bedroom, which to me, means he is boring. lol I am trying to come up with ways to make it fun. Seriously, I'm very bored with it. It is always the same position, and the same foreplay. I would not mind trying toys and such as well as different positions. The problem is, he always wants it dark and the same way. although I did light some candles the last time and he liked that. He is slowly learning how to preforn oral better on me, but I can rarely get him to do it. About a year ago, I went to a toy party, and purchased a c-ring with a bullet that is removable. We tried it once, and it didn't do much for either of us, so it has been tucked away in a drawer since then. Last time we had sex, I pulled out the bullet and asked him to try it to get me off (I don't normally get off durring sex anymore). It didn't work like I thought it would. He doesn't even know where my clit is, and I have tried showing him munerous times. I think part of the problem is that I can't even get him to look at my genitals. Any idea? I could sure use some help here. I have read almost all of the articles in the sex education section, and I still don't know what to do.

Hello. I stumbled across your site, and am addicted. lol I have actually recommended it to a few people. I am on my second marriage, and we are about to reach our 1 year anniversary. I hae 2 beautiful daughter who I love and live for. I am a pretty open person, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask.