My wife is just not really into it. Im not sure what do do. its like she has no interest. all she likes to do is cuttle. its like she doesnt have any erogionus zones, I tried her neck and ears she hates it, I tried her thies but it doesnt seem to do much. and when I touch her down there it just takes so long and it feels like im not getting anywere. when I rub her actual clit. its to much that it hurts. what am I supposed to do. and she gets grossed out from pre com. she happens to be on the pill could that be a reason? is there anything she can take that will help?