rknipp03@hotmail.com

My wife and I were married a little over 7 months ago. I love you dearly but we still have one issue, we have yet to have sex. We were both virgins when we got married so I did not truly know what to expect, but I did expect to be having sex within 7 months. Each time we try she says that it is too painful for her. We always use ample lubricant and I make sure that the foreplay is quite extensive. We really do not know what to do because with each failed attempt we both become more frustrated and I cannot help but think that it is only making her less able to relax. Any suggestions?