staubina

i am out lasting my fiance in bed and i am not sure what to do about it. We are passionate and into the sex from the start and then she will orgasm once or twice and she is done and when she is done she starts to hurt if i am still not done so of course i stop because the last thing i want is to hurt her. I have tried longer foreplay and i am not sure what to do from here, I want to make her happy and i really like that part but she gets really sad and will sometimes start to go into tears if i don't cum because she thinks i do not think she is sexy or I am not attracted to her anymore which is very not true. So how in the hell did I go from being the one who always finishes first to needing a while to really get off....can anyone give me any advice on this one?

it is really hard to think of ways to turn my fiance on, as a male it is easy for me he wanting sex or sometimes just hearing her voice turns me on... but in her case I am just not exactly sure what will work and what will end in an argument because i am annoying her from trying to hard, any suggestions?

We have been together for 5 years now 3 of which we have been sexually involved and we are engaged and have been for a little while now. We have hit a really great comfort level and are happier than ever together. I have noticed though that she does not see to be aroused as easily or as often as she used to. I have tried things like massages, candle lit dinners, bubble baths, and straight out not trying to hard anyone have any suggestions of what I can do to help match our sexual drive?