cumngetme

This is my first post, so be gentle. I love sex with my husband, but more and more he just keeps talking and telling me what to do. I have been screwing this man since 1972, I do think that I know what I am doing. It has gotten to the point that I don't want to have sex anymore with him. He really kills the mood. I like dirty talk and really dirty talk with actions, but all he says is "suck it" "suck it", like I don't know "IT'S" there. He also rubs my clit until it is uncomfortable and I have to literally shove him away. By then I am mad and don't want anything to do with him. I have told him what I like and what I don't, I have also showed him. He seems to only hear me when we are having make-up sex. I know that he knows what excites me and what turns me off, but he keeps doing the latter. And lately I have noticed that he doesn't even want sex anymore. We are becoming room-mates instead of lovers. I feel really hurt and confused about all of this. Anyone have any suggestions or comment?