codione

Hetrosexual at my age? I think in my post I said that I met my former husband when I was 20. I hardly had any time to experiment. And this really does not have anything to do with being hetro, bi or gay. This forum is full of people who have experimented and are open to talking about it. Whether they are married or engaged or not. Some have had good experiences others not so good. As for the other woman-I had not thought about the fact that she works for my husband, definitlly something to consider strongly. But please don't talk about my "Moral Compass"-I did not realize you were the self appointed head of this church group.

I need some advice on how to handle a situation I am in. I am getting married next month to my boyfriend. We have been together for a year and a half and engaged for about a year. Here is a little background. I was married before to someone that I met when I was 20. I am not extremely experienced sexually, at least not until I met my current boyfriend. I have opened up alot with him, but I have only been with a few guys in my life and none of them did things like he does. He on the other hand has had alot of experience including a few threesomes with girlfriends and their friends, and even an ex girlfriend that had sex with a couple of his friends and him. None of this ever bothered me as he has always made me feel like the most important person in the world. Last week he asked me if I would go to bed with a woman. I assumed that he just wanted to pose the question to see if I would like to have a threesome. I immeadiatly said that there is no way. He assured me that he has no need to participate, just that he wants me to have the experience. I have thought about it before and dont really see anything wrong with it. He suggested a girl that I have gotten to know since we met. She is bi-sexaul, and very cute but youuger that me. I have actually held hands with her one time and we kissed another when we were drinking. I am conflicted on this for two reasons. First she is younger and very cute I dont want him to even know about details if I do this. Second she works for my boyfriend. I actually have never felt that she has wanted to do anything, Rather it was me that had flited with her. I just think that if I want to try this I should do it before I am married.