Hi! I'm new to this site so I do apologize if I'm posting in the wrong category. I'm a 21 yr old female who's never been sexually active. However, I do use a vibrator, although I never insert it. When I try to insert my vibe (which is only 6'' inches long, and 1 1/2"inches wide) it pinches terribly. I have been getting regular pap and pelvic exams since I was 17 years old, and the "pinch" from the speculum is similar to when I practice with my vibe. My question is: is the pinch i'm feeling just my hymen stretching? It IS still intact after all of these pelvic exams ( I looked lol). I sure hope sex doesn't feel like that. It's really annoying and I'm considering just pushing through the pain, but I'm nervous to feel that pinch. Just a note, I don't care to wait for "someone special", hell, I'M special enough!! lol Any replies are appreciated..thank you!!!