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-- How long ago was your child born 2.5 years -- Is she under any major stress? Not that I know or aware of, other thatn the normal everyday stresses. -- Is she on any new medications? No -- How's the relationship otherwise? A little up & down. -- Was there a specific "time marker" when this happened or was it gradual? Before birth & slipping slowly ever since. -- (NO, I'm NOT saying it's "always the man's fault," but I AM covering ALL bases when I ask...) Did you do something to piss her off? I hope I not pissed her off to the sense of this gradual menacing issue. I love my wife so much & I want her to be happy, content. I always try to she her that, hugs, spur of the moment kiss behind the neck, etc, etc.......

This may have been covered already. I have a issue with my wife, seems she has gone off sex completely & when we do, she seems to only be doing it for my sake. (Like hurry up please). I have tried many times to talk to her about our issue of our sexual relationship, no go, she ends up getting upset & angry. Before we got married & child, we were on the road to having sex/making love nearly everyday, with more frequents quickies on weekends. Now it's like a extended frozen winter when it comes to us having sex. I am so hurt by her not wanting talk to me about it. Help please, I would appreciate any & all feedback good or bad. Thanks, Big G42

Hello to all, Just joined after reviewing some of the forums here. Great to be able to take part of this. I am married to a lovely Irish woman, we have 1 son. I have been in Ireland living & working for 4 years this November. Great here but I do miss home. (California) Looking foward to all this site has to offer, & hope I can give as much as I receive. The one & only Big G42