littlefish

Thanks for the welcome! (I know I should have put this in my first post, but I forgot to go back and get it at the time.) I just wanted to say that Howard is absolutely right about guys not knowing how to talk about sex. Especially when your boyfriend or husband is someone who keeps a lot of things inside. There were several times during cuddling afterwards that I would ask mine what he liked best during it, and he would start joking around about what he liked and didn't, and what I should and shouldn't do more of. I didn't get pissy about it or accuse him of not taking me seriously (we're people who laugh a lot, especially at ourselves). I'm all right with talking normally about it from my end, but it seemed to make him uncomfortable until about a week ago, when he finally gave me a running commentary (for as long as he could keep his thoughts straight) when I went down on him. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it took him a while to open up like that with me, but since I expressed a genuine interest in how I could make it even better for him, he was willing to take me seriously and really let me.

I just wanted to thank you all for your contributions to this post (especially bondagejunkie, Mikayla, and Howard, of course!), because I employed many of them successfully this summer when I gave my first bj ever to my boyfriend of 10 months. If it seems like we're moving slowly, that's because we are. I'm a very shy person, but he's very patient, and I'd started to want to know what I could do to please him if the opportunity ever came up for me to surprise him with how comfortable I've gotten with him. He took an internship out of state over the summer, so I didn't get to see him often, but the first time I did, we were fooling around, and I started sucking on his thumb and flicking it with my tongue, and this small, small thing actually made him get harder. I really surprised him by telling him I wanted to try 'something', and used the figure-8 thing, the corncob thing, and paid special attention to his balls, and by the end of it, he was speechless (in a good way, because he returned the favor remarkably). He really loves when I suck his shaft into my mouth, then do the figure-8 thing with my tongue up and down the length (in long strokes, not short flicks) while I'm sucking on him really hard. He didn't believe me when I told him it was my first try ever at giving head. Since then, he says I'm getting better and better, and he jokes that I'm practicing on other guys (or vegetables) behind his back. I just told him about the website last week, and he was pretty excited about what you guys are putting up here for our benefit, so thanks! Seriously, thanks so much!