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Thanks for the reassuring words and I will give it more time maybe that’s all she needs I have only been home for 1 month so I got the time now to spend with her so we will see how it all works out then we will see about getting back to where we were. So here is another Q. she tossed all our toys and stuff and ok that just lets us shop for more when she is ready right but she doesn’t even want me to have anything in the house Yea she knows that I'm a guy and I occasionally Masturbate and she is cool with it she has watched and she is pretty much like what ever just don’t make a mess but she doesn’t want me to have any Masturbation sleeves or anything you guys think that is just part of the whole She wants it to be just us thing?

Well I have had talks with her and we do still have great sex but just no toys or bondage and she says that it's just that she only wants real sex with me no toys or props or aids nothing but me and her. I know he isn’t cheating she is not like that she doesn’t even look and other guys and not that I am of that I do but I can account for every minute that she is not with me so she doesn’t have time for it any way. Nope no arguments here no fighting or anything we have in the past had disagreements but nothing big. As far as I know nothing has happened to her I have asked and all I get is that while I was gone she had bad dreams of some one breaking in and tying her up and using the toys on her as they raped her but that was just a dream and it didn’t really happen and that is i think why she threw the toys away.

Ok let me start by telling you all I am in the Army and just returned from Iraq I am in charge of Soldiers all day and in control of everything going on around me at work but when I am with my Wife in the bed room I Love to have her in control. Now I am home and she tells me she threw out all the toys and that she doesn’t want them any more nor does she want any kind of bondage or control and that just the thought of using toys makes her sick. Before I deployed we had great sex and we had Amazing Bondage sex where she would take complete control and do what She wanted in the bed room and I could relax and not have the stress of my daily life interfere with our lovemaking I could just (let my hair down) you could say and she used to Love it she would think up ways to tie me up and satisfy us both but not any more. So I’m asking are there any Women out there that can tell me whets going on with her or how to ease her back to where we were?