this is embarrasing to say, but i've never had an orgasm.. my sexual experience to date has not been impressive to me.. to the point i haven't had sex in several years...never even owned a toy.. i just ordered my first one from your site after looking at your advice on toys and looking at several options... i masterbate and can get right to the edge, and it feels really good, but never get over the edge.. it leaves me very frustrated. I imagine a lot of it is my lack of experience. Any advice on how to get past this?