i have been with my husband for 7 years and we have a great sex life and recently the topic of a 3some just came up now i;m ok with it but i've never done anything sexual with a female before(i love watching them) however i dont know how to go about finding someone. i know how to pick up guys and i am not shy, but with females im not sure how to pick them up plus im a little shy to do it . should i just go for it myself and take my chances or just let him pick someone. any suggestions