that's my problem, I'm not sure if she's really trying... I gave her an option few days ago, sadly i broke down and cried in the car because I don't know wtf is going on anymore. I told her, honestly tell me if you like me or not. I wont be mad about it, It'll be easier for me to move on if that's the case. She said that she loves me and hates seeing me be miserable, she told me that she does not want to keep seeing me like this, she rather it be over between us then see me be miserable, but when i ask her do you really want to end this she says no i don't. I don't know if it's her past. She was cheated on 3 times and her sex life with past boyfriends was more abuse, she said she was forced to have sex while on her period. I mean we hang out a lot and love each others company but I can't help feeling that she's not meeting me halfway on things. I mean at times with some sanity left in me, i tell myself that I'm to good for this girl, i tell myself at times that she doesn't deserve me, that's how hard i have tried in this relationship. I have given her plenty of times to break it off and she hasn't, i guess thats what's confusing me. Two weeks ago i did snap, i threw my phone off the wall and broke it and didn't accept any of her phone calls to my house phone or any myspace messages. She kept on trying real hard, saying she couldn't sleep and didn't understand what was going on, she came over crying about the whole situation. The thing is that's confusing me at times, for me i love her and i let her know it everyday with the things i do. Movies, Chick Flicks, Messages, Hugs, Kisses on forehead, lips, cheeks w/e I pick her off work take her out to lunch, take her out to dinners, make her feel important because she is important to me, we even have movie nights with her parents every week now. My problem is, i never get anything back. I don't know if she has a problem showing how she feels about me, or if she really cares but doesn't express it. I don't know what the case is, but its hurting me. Sometimes she'll just come over and watch TV while i just want to play around with her. Maybe kiss, joke around, wrestle w/e I love that kinda a stuff and most of the time she's not in the mood for it. She has done these things before, but i really had to work at it to make it happen. I'm open minded and respect woman because of my past with my parents, and i do lover her very much. But if a relationship starts to take a toll on me, i will make the smart decision and break it off, for my own good. Regardless of how much i love her. I really don't want to get to this point. You guys have been great so far, but i need more insights on this.