slwerner

Thanks everyone for your help. I will definitely look up the articles suggested. You can never have too much knowledge, lol.

Hi, I am new here and also new to oral sex. I was married for a number of years to someone who did not like sex at all, a did not do oral. Needless to say I am now divorced and in a relationship with a wonderful man. I tried oral for the first time with him and OMG what a wonderful thing. I love to receive but especially to give. Now my questions is this, sometimes he is not "all the way hard", he tells me that the feelings are just as intense for him but I am worried that he does not want to hurt my feelings. Is this something because we are older (over 45)? I will admit that he does get hard eventually so maybe I am just worried for nothing and this is normal. Since I don't have anything to compare to I am hoping someone will let me know.