[Experience With Ben Gay?]

I appreciate your response, and I understand your concern. I am not dead set on doing it, and am looking for advice, and yes, even advice on how to do it, if we were to progress.

Would you have any other suggestions instead of Bengay, that would create a warm/hot sensation on the genitalia, without the deep burning sensation that may/will cause?

I do sincerely appreciate your concern, and your response. Thanks

[Experience With Ben Gay?]

DO NOT APPLY THESE THINGS TO YOUR GENITALS - ESPECIALLY WOMEN!

When those creams mix with fluids, the sensation is double duty hot. It is also very dangerous to use where there may be cuts (you do not want to get that stuff inside you). IF you must play with Ben Gay, use it on nipples or other not so private spaces.

What about men? Could it be applied in small amounts (small areas)? Like just a dab on the shaft only? Or just the area by the crown of the penis?

[Experience With Ben Gay?]

I'm fairly experienced with mild/moderate bondage and teasing/denial. I've read about using things like Ben Gay, Icey Hot, etc, in sex play. I was wondering, how extreme is it when applied to genitalia? My partner and I have discussed using it (both guys), and I guess we're looking for advice either way.

Do you suggest it? If so, should we avoid certain areas? How extreme is it? How long does the burning sensation last? Etc.. whatever you feel we should know

Thanks

Vasteve