amyk

I just recently realized that my boyfriend masturbates at least once a day sometimes twice. He comes home and masturbates to porn on the computer or he will do it in the shower if I am home. This is really starting to bother me. I am a very sexual person, if I he would let I would want to sex at least onces a day. We do have sex 2-3 times a week. He comes every time so I know he is getting satisfied. I thought maybe he was just getting bored so I even tried to spice things up a bit. Nothing changed. I am tired of him turning me down for sex. The only time we have sex is when he asks for it but still he is masturbating EVERYDAY. I mean is that normal. I have talked to him about it before. It is a very sensitive subject w/him. He said that sex has become like a job now and too much thinking involved(such as him holding back from coming to soon) He would rather just masturbate to a girl on the computer since "she wouldn't be able to care how fast he came" He also said that he tired and would just get done and over with so he can relax. I have now quit asking for sex after being turned down so many times. I guess I have couple questions here. Is it normal for him to masturbating so much? How do I get him to stop thinking of sex like a job?