PreciousGirl

I am 41 and my Fiancé is 36. I am trying to understand his sexual drive. Actually there isn't one; it has gotten so bad I find my self fantasying about having an affair. I know my sexual drive is stronger at my age, but what happened to his. I know in the past he had an addiction to internet porn, but I believe that is over. Maybe his having an affair. I have tried to talk to him, but he always seems to have a different excuse. He has always wanted a blow job, which I never felt comfortable giving, and I have even tried that. I bought and read books on how to give them, but he says he doesn't like that now or I am doing it wrong and it hurts. He is not attracted to me it is very obvious. I don't if I should end the relationship or if I should try to get him (us) into counseling. Any advice would be great.