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  1. I found that for me it was a combo of the penetration and clitoral stimulation. As the other posters have said there is nothing wrong with adding in a bullet for play with your guy. It's not that he's doing anything wrong, but women need more stimulation. And I agree with Mik it's a speed thing, why not have 5 orgasms when without it you could only have one?

    Guys that think they should be enough need to get out of that head space, it's not that they aren't enough it's just why not have added fun?

    Who cares what it takes to get you there, the fact is you're getting there while he's participating with you so it's all good. Good luck!

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  2. I noticed that you left out one very important response in all categories a "doesn't matter" We HAVE to choose one or the other here and that's not nessacarily true

    It was left out on purpose because the objectification of the post was to determine length vs girth. You are always free to do your own poll.

  3. Oh honey I know you were kidding. :) Your living proof men can evolve! :)

    Aiden, as he said he was joking. "Goliath" and "Big Red" are in fact the exact same toy and while you may not enjoy the toy, please don't diss ours.

    I wasn't *dissing* anything or anyone, this is what I said: "And no, big red and goliath personally for me are too uncomfortable." I just said it was not for me. How is that dissing anything? I'm really getting pretty sick and tired of you singling out my posts or misinterpreting what I said.

  4. So what you're all saying is that you might prefer a guy that is average length, has nearly the girth of "big red" - or Goliath as SuzyP calls it (unless you are giving oral in which case smaller is better), is attentive to your needs and moods, LOVES foreplay as well as giving oral pleasure to his lady, and reads TooTimiid with her regularly for information and entertainment.

    Or not?

    Lil Librarian....

    Not know and just feel it and wonder....Sounds like a good reason to have the lights off, or use a blind fold....

    I'm answering from my viewpoint, that of the women I talk to, and that of the discussions we've had here before. *Most* women prefer girth over length. Some women like length, but the vagina's nerve endings are concentrated at the opening to the vagina. Women like to have something of girth to clamp down on during penetration and orgasm. That's just how we are.

    Men seem to think that women are fixated on length when if you ask most women what they prefer they will say girth over length. It feels better.

    And no, big red and goliath personally for me are too uncomfortable.

    And I'm lucky that I have a man that loves foreplay, giving oral pleasure, and reads and has contributed to the forums here.

    Here's a few articles when I googled girth vs length on penis size.

    Girth vs Length

    Girth Vs Length 2

    Girth vs Length 3

    Here's a poll, should be interesting to see what the ladies say.

  5. I can not tell you how great is feels to know that I am not the only one out there that can not do the casual sex thing. ((hugs)) back at you Aiden

    I don't understand the people that can do casual sex, it would leave me so empty inside. But everyone's different.

  6. I'll keep my response short since everyone before me gave you excellent thoughts and advice.

    There is nothing wrong with you for not connecting. You don't know how yet. You had a bad marriage and a date. You haven't yet experienced the joy of a normal good relationship and trust me they are out there.

    I know for me I can't have sex with someone unless I am in love with them. That would probably account for my extremely short list of lovers. My best sex is with GSK, now. My worst was with my ex. I couldn't respect the ex let alone stomach sex with him.

    And there is nothing wrong with being honest afterward. No one learns by not being truthful to their partner. I still have moments where I was not satisfied during sex, and just afterward say "I need more" and he does what ever it is I need to make it good for me.

    You will find that happiness and fulfillment, just keep dating and it's fine to say "I'm not ready" when it comes to sex.

    ((hugs)) for the bad times.

  7. No one is calling you a liar. I stated that there is to my knowledge no herb that will increase penile size. Some herbs and medicines may help with erection, but none will add inches to a penis. If he is claiming that, I'd love to read the abstract on it.

    I am glad his cancer is in remission.

  8. We're not having a lot of conversations, but we're seeing a counselor. It feels like there is something she isn't saying, something that she's holding back in the sessions. When we talk about it out of his office she very quickly gets angry about the subject. She doesn't want a really open talk about our sex life. We just work around the edges. I think something happened to her in the past, but I don't know what. She has a strange attitude about sex that is totally different than anything I've ever experienced.

    I am so glad I came here. I registered here because you all have such a wide variety of opinions and experiences that I couldn't get in counseling. Your perspectives are helping me put the pieces together. Thank you all.

    That's the main problem.

  9. This statement bothers me on many levels. For one, I have a very good friend whose wife basically told him the same thing. It hurt him emotionally and a lesser man might have also strayed physically.

    Also, I believe that yes, there are other ways to express love, but I don't think there is anything as truly meaningful and profound as making love. Maybe I am wrong, but I don't understand how a person who is in love with another person could make a statement like that unless they do not know how important that intimate act is to their SO. If she knows how important sex - making LOVE - is to you, and still tells you to masturbate ... well, I think you all need to have some serious conversations.

    Sex is not just a physical biological act, not when shared between two people in love.

    Absolutely, what an odd thing to tell someone. "It's hormones go masturbate". Sounds like something much more is going on.

  10. I'm confused by your post also, but I know of no "herb" that will increase penis size, if there was a lot of men would be using it. I think he's pulling your leg :lol:

    The vagina will stretch just take your time and use a lube if necessary.

  11. You need to sit and talk with your friend and tell them exactly what you've told us. Otherwise you will always harbor resentment. Accidents do happen, but there is an accountability factor here too.

    Honestly, I see no reason to pick a child up and dangle by the hand. Would you pick a pet up by the paw and hand to some one else?

  12. Wow.... It's really interesting to see how much other people can get for as much or less than we pay in the States..... I mean, LOOK AT ALL THAT FRUIT AND MEAT!!!

    And Chad at $1.23.... That's heartbreaking with the lone bottle of water there for all of them.... I go through that much water in a day....

    I know, my heart went out to Chad.

  13. Aiden and Suzy may I PM you? I'm done on here with the guys who want to treat me as a kid when I'm an adult.

    BOYS; Pappy and chuck welcome to the modern world. What you consider adults isn't how my generation and the generations to come are growing up. We're redefining what adults are. Don't like it? Just bit the bullet. We're not going to change just cause you say you want us to. We're the real rebels and it's time we change whats been in place for far too damn long. If you want to call me a kid then so be it but I'm an adult whether you like it or not. There's only 2 major things I can't do yet but I can do everything you can. Vote, serve my country, go to jail or prison. I'm an adult so grab your balls and deal with it.

    Final note chuck I HAVE A REAL JOB! I'M A LANDSCAPER. I BREAK MY BACK AT MY JOB CAUSE I DON'T HAVE A CREW I PROUDLY WORK BY MYSELF. I WANT TO WORK ALONE. I PAY TAXES. I'M KEEPING MEDICARE ALIVE FOR YOU AND I WON'T GET WHAT YOU HAVE OR WILL HAVE. YES YOU ARE TOO BUT ONCE YOU STOP WORKING I WILL BE PAYING FOR IT EVEN THOUGH I WON'T HAVE IT WHEN I RETIRE. I'll say it again to you. I'm an adult so deal with it.

    Sorry Korn, you wouldn't like what I have to say. Your disrespect to the members here speaks volumes. And you are not redefining what adults are you're defining what an immature person is. You are not a rebel. You're a child throwing a tantrum. So as to the pm request my answer is no. Your rudeness to Chuck, Pappy and the other members who tried to help you in this thread is intolerable to me. And you are not redefining what adults are you're defining what an immature person is.

  14. She lifted her up off the floor by the hand

    Do you mean to her feet or were her feet dangling off the floor? If they were dangling and she was picking her up like that, that's not acceptable. I can understand helping a child to their feet but feet dangling? No.

    Sorry but if that happened in my home, the friend would know exactly what caused this ER trip, and know my child's injury was caused by their actions. An accident yes but accountable none the less. Your poor child.

  15. Suzy, I'm not looking for another way out of my current situation.

    No I'm not looking to replace my parents. I want to get out from under parents.

    I feel I am mature enough to handle kids of any age.

    I have learned and grown for both relationships. This looks like a learning from it and everyone on here.

    I do want a relationship but sex wouldn't hurt. Maybe if I just get it I will reset me and I can focus better.

    My parents wouldn't allow it. Let alone allow me to date a lady my age. One of my friends wouldn't approve since it's her best friends mom the rest would be happy that I have a relationship.

    Her youngest would freak since her and I are former friends the others idk. Probably be a bit akward for them.

    This is where I don't understand Korn, why would they not allow you to date a woman of your own age? And why would you allow them to dictate that to you? You are an adult.

    And Korn, you need to be careful what you are saying to people here. Posting on a public forum will invite responses. Some that you don't like. This is the exact kind of nonsense that doesn't belong on here. It makes more housekeeping for the mods and the admins who are really getting sick of seeing this stuff and having to babysit it.

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