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Is there a forum or chat here where i might be able to get some opinions on how to tell wife i sometimes use her toys and have thoughts of being a bottom. Or if I should even tell her at all? I need somewhere to go and someone to ask!

I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on reason some women cant fit but 6 or so inches using a stiff vibe but can take al ot more when using a jelly flex. Im confused. Thanks

This might seem weird and off the wall but I gotta see what some of yall think. Please forgive me if I jump around or miss things, Im not the best story teller! lol My wife n I have been together for 7 years. Every now and then ( once a month) during those years she let me use a toy on her, thats my fav thing to do. thing is, she doesnt really care for it, she lets me use it cause she knows I like it and want it. It's not that she doesnt enjoy it, she does. Maybe its because when she masterbates she always gets off with massager on clit, she never has used dildo or vibe or even fingers to get off. i wish she would! I wanna expand our lil toy collection, we have a 4,5 and 6in jelly vibes, and a 7.5in glass she cant use. The other week I brought up idea about new toy, she said sure. I was happy to hear that. She asked what kind and I said bigger than we have now, like 8 or 9in. She said ya right! Thats too big! I dont understand why she doesnt wanna try it? I know shes had bigger.I just thiink its something else. Well, about a week later after dinner and too much wine we started going at it. After alot of foreplay she told me to get the toy. the only thing is, I bought the new toy (9in) few days earlier and never gotta chance to tell her! So I decided to use it. I started slow, working deeper and deeper, before I knew it she grabbed it and pushed it the rest of the way . She loved it. It went on for a while. Thing is, i never told her bout new toy. Im not sure if I should. Im just confused about her saying she wouldnt want a bigger one. Then lovin it when she didnt know. I told yall it was weird!!!! Please post any thoughts!!! thanks I need help

all i can say is that it was great! Too cut a story short. My wife was only doing it to please me, not that she was against it. I talked her into lettin me get a big guy. The nite of we all met n had drinks to break the ice.After couple hours went to hotel. My wife wanted to back out when she seen the size of him, but she didnt. It was hot watchin her try n take him. it when on for about an hour. The only down side was she was sore for days. i know not much detail, not much time. i can go on a while in detail. lol

thanks for info everyone. It happened and it was great!

Good timing on your question J. i was asking the same questions you are about 3 months ago. My wife n I went thru with it. Not sure if you would consider it a 3 some cause I mostlysat back and enjoyed it, and sometimes directed.lol. That was the plan from beginning tho. it was great! She really enjoyed it too. Like u and your wife, my wife n I have really solid marriage. Didnt affect us. Need more info let me know

Thanks Howard

ME TOO!!!!!!!! hehehe

thanks everyone

Thanks tyger!

Thanks guys, and gals

I've had this fantasy pop into my head a few months ago and I cant stop thinking bout it. The more time goes by the more I wanna make it real!!! In my fantasy I am watching my wife get nailed by a guy that's huge. I mean shes at her breaking point if you will, cause of his size!!! Watching her try and take it and work with it was amazing!! I know other guys fantasize bout other guys doing there wives, is mine abnormal? sorry so short. didnt wanna bore ya with long details. lol

Thanks for the post, I was looking into getting one.

I've been looking on this site for a new jelly vibe or dildo. The problem is that not all the toys have exact decriptions, I'm looking for something about 8 or 9" insertable and a lil thicker than average I guess. Alot of them that say 8" means total, (handle, knob etc) Does anyone have any feedback, or how to figure this out. Thanks

I will for sure, this site is amazing. I just have to warm her up to the idea before online or a catalog

It's what I want. She doesn't really have an idea about to much of it yet. We have talked very little on it. I was going to look into it. ask around. Find some info, then talk to her more in depth

Hey everyone. I'm looking for advice or ideas on how to get my wife to get a bigger toy. We have 3 vibes, 4,5, and 6inches. We have talked about a new toy and she's good with that. She"s just very iffy about getting a big one.I have no idea why, she's pretty shy talking bout this kinda stuff. She's had big in the past, so I know its not about size. she just wont open up. We have had some crazy nights after a night of drinking, but I dont think its a good idea for me to go buy a toy of my liking and surprise her on one of those nights. hehe, Any other way? Thanks in advance

Is there an easier way to go about finding a man for my wife (for pleasure) rather than bar hopping etc? I've put alot of thought into this lately and cant come up with a way to find someone. I just wanna be able to ask them some personal questions without problem. Any advice or ideas are welcome. Thanks in advance

Is there an easier way to go about finding a man rather than bar hopping etc? I've put alot of thought into this lately and cant come up with a way to find someone. I just wanna be able to ask them some personal questions without problem. Any advice or ideas are welcome. Thanks in advance