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yea i kinda figged it was something along those lines...
but still... imagine what blowing a load like THAT would feel like hahaha.
just wishful thinking i suppose :]
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i guess what im going to have to do is give her the greatest quality AND quantity of oral lovin' so that she's paralyzed from the waist down hahaha. jk
i give it all a try and let you all know how it goes down hehehe
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i have had much drunk sex back in my day. a lot lot hahaha.
i party a lot in these days.
me and my fiancee go to as many parties as we can together. however, we don't/can't stay very long because when we drink, our sex drives go through the roof, same thing goes for when we smoke.
im not saying its better, but in our drunken stupor, the sex after a party seems to be the most intense sex we've ever had. its the only time when i have been able to orgasm twice in one go.
tonight is new year's eve and i plan on getting VERY crunk and use all the things i have learned from this site to have even more mindblowing amazing sex.
and one of the things that i love most about sex is, after we ravish each other's bodies for a couple of sweaty, heavy breathing, body shaking, mind exploding, i post up on the bed. my back on the headboard, so basically im sitting up with my legs sprawled out. and she is laying in between them, her back against my chest, and we split a camel no. 9 menthol 100. it is seriously one of the most romantic i have ever felt with my girl... god, im getting goosebumps now...
so basicallly, what im wondering is, if there is any one else out there that enjoys a smoke afterwards, drunk sex escapades, etc?
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anyone heard of peter north? that guy seems to have a never ending ejaculation... its almost scary!
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happy new year! and i hope everyone has a "great" night tonight! lord knows i will
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this seriously is one of the best sites on the whole internet. it dares go places that most people dont or feel comfortable going or asking. i appreciate everything and everyone on board :]
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double post due to all the great ideas... hahaha
Let me back up Mikayla's advice here. She is almost 100% correct. I believe she is being a bit optimistic about what marriage does to a relationship. If anything, Marriage is the end of many sex practices you enjoyed before marriage! I wish I had a dollar for every man who told me that his GF gave him blow jobs- and spit-- before marriage, and as soon as the " I-dos " were said, Blow jobs joined the long list of " Disgusting things " she would no longer do!Just a question out of curiousity, Have you kissed her after swallowing some of her cum( but not all) so that you shared some of her cum with her? Have you gone down on her to eat her pussy after your first orgasm or 3, and then kissed her again, so that she can't help but taste some of her own cum and yours as well? Have you tasted your own cum, either by scooping some up off her chest, or by eating your cum as it comes out her pussy after your first orgasm(s)??
If she is into the " ICKY-POOH" Deal about kissing after you give her oral sex, this problem seems to be based on her being rather anal compulsive about cum, and bodily fluids.
I gather she does not suck your cock back to a second erection after you have cum, either. You are entitled to have as many orgasms as you want, and at your age, you certainly should be good for a couple in a row. She is capable of surpassing you in the orgasm count by a factor of 100 to one, and you should be thrilled to help her have as many orgasms as she wants, both during foreplay( oral, manual, toys) and during Sexual Intercourse. This is where Sexual Equality should come into play, literally. Since there is absolutely no way for you to give her oral sex without tasting and swallowing her juices, why should she not taste and swallow yours?
You didn't mention it, so I assume, also, that she considers Anal Sex a totally taboo subject, even to not even liking you to touch her rosebud with a wet tongue. How sad. I have personally introduced several lovers to these thrills, and they have all been pleasantly surprised.
I don't think your GF is unusual for women her age. Young women, like young men, get most of their " Standards of Sexual Behavior " from other young women( or men) their age. Young women seem to be forever concerned about defining the difference between themselves and the behavior of women they consider to be " sluts ". ( That seems to be the current over-used term these days.) Swallowing cum and liking it seems to be one of their benchmarks, as it was in their mother's time. Anal sex has almost always been something that " nice girls " never do!
I have a big clue for her, that you can, and should pass on to her:
Nice girls do swallow cum, and like it, and they also do anal sex and like it, too!
Nice girls pleasure their lovers, and don't give a hoot what other women think. Nice men pleasure their lovers, and don't give a hoot about what other men think. Its called, " Growing up!"
Adult Sexual behavior is about Playing with your lover, and pleasuring him/her. Its about putting your own ideas about sex secondary to those of your lover, within reasonable bounds, so that you can maximize the pleasure your lover receives from you. You do things to pleasure your lover because you love him/her, not because its something you particularly love to do yourself. In time, you find out that the things most worth doing are those that pleasure your lover, and that is sufficient for you to like doing them, too.
Just as there is a difference between " fucking " and " Making Love", there is a difference between pleasing and pleasuring a lover. There is nothing wrong with doing both, when the occasion calls for it. A " Quickie " between lovers, however, is a lot different, than the physical scratching of a personal itch by taking on a total stranger just to have sex. In fact, quickies are best between experienced lovers, because while time and circumstance may require a fast " fuck ", they both know how to turn each other on, how to relax, and how to share their orgasms under those circumstances. Quickies for couples tides them over until they have the time, and the privacy to get more comfortable to really play with each other, and " Make love ".
What are the bounds? For most people inflicting physical wounds, or causing severe pain is out of bounds. Most people are not going to be into swallowing urine or feces, while in other cultures, those are accepted practices. Beastiality is out. Group sex is difficult for most couples, simply because love making, as opposed to fucking, is something to be shared in private. The presence of other people is a true distraction. There are other dangerous sex techniques that can threaten life, such as strangulation , using tight gags that prevent the sub to verbal communicate a " stop " command, because (s)he is choking, perhaps over something her body is trying to vomit. There are certain actions which can accidentally cause the diaphragm to lock up and stop breathing, that lead to death unless something is done to unlock the diaphragm. In medical parlance, its referred to as a " sexual misadventure. " I should say so! So those are usually some very easy boundaries couples can agree on, That don't interfere much with enjoying a wide range of sexual activity.
Best wishes.
Howard
The second erection thing was something I haven't even thought of, but sounds amazing! good advice all the way around. i have to admit that i have been reading your advice for a while now howard and it feels crazy to actually have you give me some hahaha. yea, and im going to try to, like you said, get her more comfortable with bodily fluids, i.e. kiss her after i eat her out, kiss her after she sucks me off, finish sex with oral for both of us... well damn. im really excited now hahaha
throughout the whole time when were getting sexual, i was under the mindset that 'if i give her a good enough orgasm she'll do anything i want!'
thank you aiden for your thoughts, i think "I'm curious where she is getting these ideas, and why she would even care what the standards of others are." will be enough for her to do it.
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No, she has not swallowed or done a facial with anyone else, I'm her first REAL sexual partner.
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If worst comes to worst, Im sure i can think of new fantasies that are more doable lol.
But definitely. I sent her the link to your article about dt, and she said she would try that... but not swallowing or a facial. she can get confusing sometimes lol. do you think i should stop swallowing for her because she won't do it for me, or would that just be mean and spiteful?
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i think it might be because im relatively young and really into it anyway, but i love having sex to/masturbating to metal, grindcore, and all it's variants. honestly, it makes me feel like such a badass hahaha. and it puts a more exotic, intense mood over everything.
fav. songs
"statutory ape" - black dahlia murder
"memphis will be laid to waste" - norma jean
"apocalypse now and then" - every time i die
"house of straw" - bury your dead
"back to back" - the chariot
"tranquil" - darkest hour
"ravenous" - arch enemy
"deathmask divine" - black dahlia murder
"climatic degradation" - black dahlia murder
"crawl through knives" - in flames
"as diehard as they come" - hatebreed
"nocturnal" - black dahlia murder
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first of all, hello to everyone. and thank you for keeping this site alive with fresh new ideas, tricks, and other valuable information.
now to the question.
my fiancee flat out says no to swallowing AND to facials. she thinks its degrading. i dont see it as a degrading act whatsoever... more like proof of love and commitment. however, she isn't a prude as im welcome to the rest of her body when its time. sadly, the one thing i cant have, is what i want. dont get me wrong, cumming on her chest is a thrill... but i just need "more." i dont get it as i let her do WHATEVER she wants to me. sex, for me, is all about giving her the best possible orgasm. is there any way to get her to even at least try a facial/swallow just once? or should i just write off that fantasy?
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many of my friends do talk about not being able to please a lady due to their lack of sobriety. the horror stories of passing out right after he climaxes, leaving her to fend for herself haunt me. however, on the personal note, i have not ever not pleased a lady.
in fact, more often then not, i am not able to climax, but she does many many times over. however, i am not bummed out by that because the next morning, my lady doesnt remember much of the night before, but she does remember the amazing sex and 'makes up' for it by a little dance and amazing oral ecstasy. i cant complain much. hahaha
i will definitely direct all my male friends that still think that DRINKING is the best thing to do at a party to your advice, howard. hahahaha thanks again. :]