I am considering a toy for myself and am not sure where to start. Any suggestions for someone new to all of this? I know that I am not being too direct in my specifications, but I really don't have any other than something that I can use alone as there has been a bit of a dry spell in my life! I am open (no pun intended) to both vaginal and / or anal... If anyone has any tricks of the trade with any recommended toys, they would be useful as well! Thanks, Coco