I have had spinal fushion and I am 3 weeks post. My wife is a nurse and takes care of me very well. But since the surgery she has worked for more than an hour in all types of positions, me always being on the bottome, and I can not finish. She give hand and blow jobs and still I can not finish. I need some suggestions. We had talked about sex toys. Any ideas of which toys or possible sex acts that would speed things along? My wife has many orgasms while we make love. All I want is one.