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I know you are right about his insecurities.....because he is just like that. I think that's where is all began. He is so into pleasing me I think he freaks about it and finally it has exploded. I don't want to hurt his feelings....

Wow, I can't wait.....very very very very cool! Thanks....going to do that tonight...lol

Ok, thanks Howard. I am going to try the breathing thing tonight. I think I have read every sex ed article on here, just because...lol...I love it! Such a cool place. We do play around a lot with each other, we laugh and cut up all the time. I have never done this with anyone I have ever been with before. He makes me feel good all around. I want to please him, and now I feel like it's all my fault. So I will try this tonight and let you know. I have got to relax, I have to figure out how of course first...geez I'm tired can't u tell????? ;p

Thanks! I love this place. I am so afraid of this happening. He wants to talk about it and I don't. Because I don't know what to say....lol....I don't want him to feel bad. Last night was bad...lol...I wanted to just go to bed and he wanted to make sure I wasn't mad. Then he says maybe he needs to start going back to the gym!!! I am thinking what!!!!! How would that help your mouth on me..lol........

Thanks! I know I think you hit it dead on. I think I have major issues with it. I don't get it. I am so pissed. He was and still is so obsessed with me having a orgasm every single time. He always asks after no matter what. Now I am afraid it's become this "thing" you know...and I don't want to dread it and stress if he is going to make me.

Something about him down there, he is just not that great. I am telling you..lol..I noticed it right off the bat when we first had sex. The 69 thing, I can't explain. I also don't think I am fully relaxed when he is down there. I can't be! I did finally kinda tell him how and where to go... Also, I think he was so worried about it (which is what he is saying) that I am so stressed now and when he is down there all I can think about is I better do it..lol..omg...I am so confused!

Hi! I have been reading your board for a while and decided to join. Of course I need advice! I have been dating this great guy for about 3 1/2 months. When we first had sex and he gave me oral, he wasn't the best. I couldn't have a orgasm with him giving me oral. I could use my vibrator and no problem. I am not big on giving guys oral, but with him I want to. So, we tried 69 and he made me squirt all over him, well he came all over me. It was wonderful. I know we have that chemistry. But, when he goes down there on me, it just doest happen. He has made me come 3 or 4 times while I was giving him oral...69. I didn't want to tell him he just wasn't the best I have had, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Well, he started catching on and asking me about it. I was kinda vague about it with him... So, now for the last two nights we have tried and I can't, so I break out the vibrator and he is feeling so BAD! The night before we tried and nothing, so I swung my legs over his hips while he was in me and I had a orgasm. But he is so hell bent on oral and me coming. He also googled how to please me..lol...too funny. I know he tries, but I am freaking out because now I feel so awkward about it. Help? What is going on?????