goddess_of_grammar

Thanks so much for the advice! I'll be sure to try it. I didn't mention, and am curious about, another thing. My husband is 47 and is not very long lasting anymore. Let me stress that I'm not complaining, he takes very good care of me and is an excellent husband, but he's bothered by this and wants to be able to last longer so we can enjoy ourselves longer. I've read that there are desensitizing creams that can help prolong erections. Do they work? Are there other things you can do?

I'm married to a wonderful man and we both enjoy sex very much. However, I have never had an orgasm from vaginal penetration, only oral sex or masturbation. Are there creams or other things that can help? What about techniques to help us out? I would like to be able to have an orgasm, it would really make my husband happy. It makes him fell inadequate, like he isn't satisfying me and I'd like to experience it.