Portia

Hello everyone! I have been a long time fan of TooTimid and the forum but for the first time I've decided to actually start participating. I do have something that I need some feedback on. My boyfriend and I have recently started experimenting with bondage, (we bought the beginner's restraint package that Mikayla recommended) and love it! We have had lots of fun, but its usually ME who is playing the sub role. However, my boyfriend would like me to try to play the more dominant role in the bedroom, and while I would like to, I have no idea where to start!! I went shopping and bought a leather corset, stockings and a whole get-up which does a good job of putting me in an authoritative mood but I have no idea where to start. I'd like to use the hand and ankle restraints on him and experiment with some warming gels and such. I guess what really trips me up is that I cant seem to find out what to say to him while in the midst of all of this! How do I go through the whole scenario and make it pleasurable for him? What can I say that will turn him on while he's tied up? For the guys that do like to be tied up, I'd also like to hear from you, when you're with somebody in this type of scenario, what really gets you going??