I have been playing with anal toys for some time now when my wife is not around. I am trying to talk my wife into using a strapon on me. She is very hesstiant about the idea. She will use small didlos on me but will not use a strapon. I think she is scared that this will replace our sex live. I love making love to my wife and strapon sex will never replace the great sex we have but sometimes I want her to be in control of the pleasure. It also feels great. Any suggestions.