Hello, My girlfriend and I want to try anal. She has had a good experience before with one speceific lube: Boi Toyz Desensitizing Anal Lube. And that is what she wants to use again. Unfortunately, it would appear that either that product had been discontinued, or that the Boi Toyz company is now defunct. With that in mind, and the fact that I never used the product to know what exactly it was like, I am looking for the closest thing to it out there. What I do know about it: water based. 5% Benzocaine for the desensitization. It is described on the net as silky, though my girlfriend said it had the consistency of lotion. We've tried two so far that she didn't like: Adam & Eve desensitizing anal lube, which was way too slippery and runny (when opening the tube, it would just pour out unless you held it upright). And the Anal-Eze cherry desensiting lube which was much too thick, and neither of us were fond of the horrid fake cherry smell. So, I come to you for help in identifiying a lube that will work for us, without amassing a collection of lubes we don't like first. I appreciate in advance any help, tips, or advice any of you can give. -supervexi