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I need some advice.... im 21 years old i've been engaged to my fiancee for 3 years this April. He is 33 years old. We have 2 children together, our son is 14 months and our daughter is almost 2 months. When we first got together the sex was amazing! every day atleast twice! we would cuddle naked afterwards and fall asleep in eachothers arms.... just beautiful. Now, 3 years and 2 kids later im lucky if I get it once a month. It sucks because I feel like im not pretty anymore ive got more stretchmarks and we have both gained some weight... I feel like because we are not having sex we are not close anymore. Im always leaning in for a kiss or trying to make the effort to cuddle or just hug. He doesnt refuse my kisses or hugs but I just realize that im the only one making the effort. yes every once in a great while he will kiss me on the back of my neck and give me a little smooch here and there.... but what happned to the passion and the effortless kisses and hugs and SEX? He is always making up excuses. First its because im pregnant and he doesnt want to hurt the baby...then its I dont want another baby, You need to get an IUD, because he wont wear a condom because there uncomfortable. Then im sure when i get the IUD it will be because our daughter is sleeping in our room and he doesnt want to do it in front of her. (which was an excuse he used with our son when he was younger) Whats wrong with me? is it me? I mean im 21... my sexdrive is amazing I would have it every night and somtimes in the morning forever if i could. He is still young hes only 33, is that such a difference? it wasnt a couple of years ago. I mean im getting desparate now. i've baught some toys now they are in the mail as we speak. And i know that when they come i will be using them by myself and more often then getting the real thing that is sleeping in the bed next to me. Im too young to be having sex once a month.I had more sex when i was single- sad to say but very true. And im not even married to him yet.... I NEED HELP!

I need some advice.... im 21 years old i've been engaged to my fiancee for 3 years this April. He is 33 years old. We have 2 children together, our son is 14 months and our daughter is almost 2 months. When we first got together the sex was amazing! every day atleast twice! we would cuddle naked afterwards and fall asleep in eachothers arms.... just beautiful. Now, 3 years and 2 kids later im lucky if I get it once a month. It sucks because I feel like im not pretty anymore ive got more stretchmarks and we have both gained some weight... I feel like because we are not having sex we are not close anymore. Im always leaning in for a kiss or trying to make the effort to cuddle or just hug. He doesnt refuse my kisses or hugs but I just realize that im the only one making the effort. yes every once in a great while he will kiss me on the back of my neck and give me a little smooch here and there.... but what happned to the passion and the effortless kisses and hugs and SEX? He is always making up excuses. First its because im pregnant and he doesnt want to hurt the baby...then its I dont want another baby, You need to get an IUD, because he wont wear a condom because there uncomfortable. Then im sure when i get the IUD it will be because our daughter is sleeping in our room and he doesnt want to do it in front of her. (which was an excuse he used with our son when he was younger) Whats wrong with me? is it me? I mean im 21... my sexdrive is amazing I would have it every night and somtimes in the morning forever if i could. He is still young hes only 33, is that such a difference? it wasnt a couple of years ago. I mean im getting desparate now. i've baught some toys now they are in the mail as we speak. And i know that when they come i will be using them by myself and more often then getting the real thing that is sleeping in the bed next to me. Im too young to be having sex once a month.I had more sex when i was single- sad to say but very true. And im not even married to him yet.... I NEED HELP!