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To miss Tyger, I have to agree with u that men here are really pariticular with women to satisfy and please them and our culture values virginity a lot once a gurl was devirginize men (i'm not stereotyping but majority) would assume or expect that the girl is skillful at bed... Although our country is starting to embrace liberation there still many of them were conservative...

Is being good in bed plays a big role in keeping a relationship with a certain person or not??? Some of the guys i have date told me that in some ways they could not deny the fact that it is very essential that their girlfriends are well-equipped in satisfying them in bed.... I just thought of why is it so important???

I LOVE Reading comments from our gurus.... i believe i am a sucker for latinos they have that invigorating sensuality........

I agree with tyger it's so impossible that he's not attracted and not want to have sex with you by the mere fact with his responses when ur flirting with him... I believed that he is keeping your friendship that holding him back not to be tempted to cross between that line... But if you think you'd still want him and ur ready to risk that friendship thing between the two of you I guess it's not a bad idea to try and ask him if it's ok to have sex with him... At least it lessen the burden of asking "WHAT IF's"

I'm also a newbie here and i also would like to ask some of our sexperts regarding "TOO MUCH MASTURBATION" I'll share you my story when I first masturbated the feeling is too ecstatic that it feels like it's an ectacy i can't get over with it.... I just do it whenever i feel hot... Until such time i came to feel and worry that i might not be able to enjoy myself to be touched by a man since my body was so used to masturbation... As a matter of fact i did some researches regarding too much masturbation as far as i know is that there is no problem with masturbating it's just that you know how to limit yourself too much of something will not do any good on you... Keep it moderate and know your body more when enough is enough.... and goodluck .....

To Tyger: You are really amazing thank you for sharing and advising me your thoughts I had fun joining this site because I could trully express my thoughts and at the same time I got great advices from great sexperts.... As for all your concerns I went to an OB-Gyne and have some test done for me to check if i'm healthy the results are all clean the doctor even told me its all in my mind that i'm not able to lubricate.... And to all of you who participated in sharing your thoughts on my concern I thank you so much.... Words couldn't express how much I feel hearing those revelations from you...

As a conclusion on what everybody had said it is still essential to set some feelings to someone to achieve having great sex.... I have experienced having one night stand twice and I didn't do any good for me... I guess I needed someone whom I'm comfortable with to be able to have that satisfying sex... Thanx guys for enlightening me.....

I have another question.... how come women from liberated country can enjoy having one night stand from a total stranger (what i mean is a guy whom they recently dated and then after their date they'll end up having satisfying sex without giving or investing enough feelings for that guy... I'm amazed how do they do that... That is what i want to practice to be able to have sex with a guy without any strings attached.... Could somebody be satisfied with having sex without sharing any emotions/feelings??? SEXPERTS I really do need your advise....

Thank you to all of you who gave me advice... It really helped me a lot.. Especially here at our country where I don't know whom will i talked to w/ regards to my problem w/o being judged or offended... As a matter of fact i agree with tyger that those guys weren't paying enough attention to make me turn on... I have another question.... how come women from liberated country can enjoy having one night stand from a total stranger (what i mean is a guy whom they recently dated and then after their date they'll end up having satisfying sex without giving or investing enough feelings for that guy... I'm amazed how do they do that... That is what i want to practice to be able to have sex with a guy without any strings attached.... Could somebody be satisfied with having sex without sharing any emotions/feelings??? SEXPERTS I really do need your advise....

I am female and 22 years i am new here... and i am seeking for help.... i've been single for 2years now... since i broke up with my first serious boyfriend during our days we had fantastic sexcapades.... since we broke up the first time i dated another guy was more than a year around and we had sex but i didn't wet at all... it end up that the guy was mad at me for making him feel horny but his penis lost its ejaculation coz he couldn't enter... This was the first time so i didn't mind at all what happened i just thought that he is not that good to make me wet... A month after, i decided to give it a try again with another guy... but the same thing happened... this time i am so bothered why does this happened to me and im so alarmed how can i enjoy sex if i am being frigid what remedies should i do... i am also masturbating i am worried that masturbating myself made me lost my appetite to have sex with a man... Please i am begging you to help me...i don' know whom will i talk to since i am living in a country where masturbating oneself is a taboo..