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  1. I see it may be true that I need a different pool. I tend to be with highly educated professionals. I know these women have advanced degrees, yet they play it off when we get to the point of a date. It drives me crazy, and it is usually the last date. It is surprising to me because when I meet these women in a professional setting they are intelligent, bright, confident. Then when alone it's like a switch goes off. This doesn't happen all the time, but enough times to make me cautious. Maybe I pick up,on something that my conscious mind is not aware of that has me moving toward these type of women. Yet I have to admit it does confuse me. I will keep,and open mind and consider your comments Ladylove. You are completely right on the low self esteem issue.

    It's funny all my social interactions are with highly educated people (most) with there feet firmly planted on the ground. It is possible to find someone who wants to be on equal footing with you. I think your 'picker' is off. Next time why don't you ask someone out who you may have passed over. See what happens.

  2. Tyger this is so true. There seems to be an immediate push to jump into bed before I even know the person. I would like a more direct relationship. Instead I get women who think they have to play a game of either being " stupid" (meaning they want to appear less intelligent or more summissive than they truly are) or they are so forward they are wanting to have sex moments after we meet (beacasuse they seem to think that is how to get and keep a man). I wish I knew more people who would be willing to be themselves rather than some one they think I want them to be.

    I hope this man that "seems" interested treats you well, Tyger.

    I think you need to find a different swimming pool!

    A person who needs to dumb themselves down or has sex with you to seal the deal isn't one with great self esteem. Perhaps you need to get out of your comfort zone and go to different places in different area to meet a different population of women.

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  3. I would suggest the Tantus Compact and the Tantus Pro. The first is non- vibrating. The second has vibration. The pro is slightly larger but has a good feel and the vibration is a plus.

    Do you think the Tantus Pro is beginner, beginner? I would like him to have the option of vibes.

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