I love my bullet! I agree with Nymph other than genitals you can use it for a gentle massage of the neck, hands, shoulders, whatever. I reeeealllly love it in foreplay on my clit and in my pussy. Hubby will pull it out of my pussy, rub it on my nipples and then lick my juices off my nipples...delightful. It is indeed earth shaking when we leave it in my pussy and I am on top. It hits my g-spot and feels awesome for him too. Or you can wedge it between you, so it is touching her clit while you make love. Buy one for goodness sake! You won't be sorry.