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  1. I have to tell you I'd have a 20 year old and I might have an issue with her dating a 31 year old, no I would have a problem with it. Just make sure he'd dating you for the right reasons.

    And the Dad not caring and Mom caring..... usually the opposite; but he's right be safe. :)

    I knew him for a year before I started dating him. And we started dating rather slowly.... we took everything one day at a time. He respects my boundries and truly does care about me.

    He gets on the airplane here tomorrow morning!

  2. Ummmmm, how much older? And unless your mormon or something like that, I don't think your mom will really expects you to be the virginal bride. I'm most conservative, and do expect my children to have sex as part of a loving long standing relationship, but not just a fling or one night stand.

    He's 31, I'm 20. My parents LOVE him.... so much so that when he gets his green card, they are having him stay at our home until he gets settled.... and they'll pay him to do odd jobs. My parents have both said they are glad I found someone that treats me right. I've been dating him for almost a year now....

    Mom's born again Baptist. VERY conservative. She expects my sister and I both to wait until marriage.

    Dad doesn't really care, as long as I'm safe.

  3. Oh, gracias! B) Haha, you should hear my road rage! This fool nearly HIT my ambulance today as I was running pretty, and I went off into a nice, LONG spill in Spanish yelling at her. It was rather amusing.

    HA!

    My ambulance driver is like an aunt to me. She's known me since I was about 3 years old from church. Very nice Christian lady.... can swear like a trucker when someone doesn't pull over when we are lights and sirens... lol

  4. I'm sure she did not approve, but kept her mouth shut. That being said, you were at the guys place NOT in HER house..may not seem so, but its a HUGE difference.

    Actually, she was the one that asked if I could spend time there so she could just get me on her way back from somewhere that was in the same direction..... she could have gotten me before, but didn't want to drive the extra hour... lol

    And this time, we aren't in her house. We are going to be at the camp my SO and I work at taking care of the place for the weekend. Our boss asked us to keep an eye out for vandals over the holiday weekend, particularly overnight.

    As for kicking the heels in, I suppose you could be right.... he is a bit older than me, so she's probably worried that he's going to want to take advantage of me (my mother would kill me if she knew I was having sex before I am married).....

    Sorry for whining, it just grates on my nerves a bit. But hey, she IS mom..... I'd NEVER dream of spending the night with a guy in the same house as her because I do know she's very against it before marriage.... Just a little while longer, I guess.

    Thanks for the insight guys! I really do appreciate helping me see it from other angles.... ^_^

  5. Their house their rules. If your not happy with the rules, move out.

    I understand that.... I really do. But what's ironic is when I was in a relationship she didn't approve of last year, she let me spend a week at the guy's place.

    I would have moved out this past semester if I could have found a job.... Searched everywhere for one, honestly. Everything I applied for they decided not to staff because of the recession. Maybe in September....

    She's the one that's been telling my sister that her boyfriend's grandparents are too overbearing.... Geez. >.<

    I'll live with it. She hasn't said anything today about it, so maybe my dad convinced her. *fingers crossed*

  6. Seriously? In a very positive relationship. And you aren't going to let me spend the night with my boyfriend? Our boss asked us to spend the weekend. US! Not just HIM! I'm 20 years old. Let me live. >.<

    Mom is SERIOUSLY too overprotective. Thankfully Dad doesn't see an issue with it. Let's see if he can talk her into not caring so much, or it will be WAY too hard to be in the same room as my SO and not be able to jump his bones after 8 months apart.

    I'M NOT FREAKING 10, MOM! I can make responsible choices. You may not agree with them, but at least I'm being safe! >.<

  7. Totally thought I bombed that Anatomy exam..... the teacher said I could take it thursday and then said "nope. it's now. the same time as your other exam." >.<

    I got a B- in the class. WTF? idk how that happened. Wasn't prepared AT ALL! Well.... I guess I won't complain..... lol

    6 DAYS AND 13 HOURS LEFT!!!!!! =D

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